Implement lightweight auth system with SQLite

Added SQLite database for session management and user preferences storage,
allowing users to have consistent settings across different sessions and devices.

Backend changes:
- Added SQLite database with users, sessions, and preferences tables
- Implemented session-based authentication alongside JWT tokens
- Created preference storage/retrieval API endpoints
- Database migrations for schema setup
- Session validation and cleanup functionality

Frontend changes:
- Added "Remember server" and "Remember username" checkboxes to login
- Created preferences service for syncing settings with backend
- Updated auth flow to handle session tokens and preferences
- Store remembered values in LocalStorage (not database) for convenience

Key features:
- User preferences persist across sessions and devices
- CalDAV passwords never stored, only passed through
- Sessions expire after 24 hours
- Remember checkboxes only affect local browser storage

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Co-Authored-By: Claude <noreply@anthropic.com>

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+# SQLite database
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+*.db-shm
+*.db-wal
+calendar.db