Implement shared RFC 5545 VEvent library with workspace restructuring

- Created calendar-models/ shared library with RFC 5545-compliant VEvent structures
- Migrated backend to use shared VEvent with proper field mappings (dtstart/dtend, rrule, exdate, etc.)
- Converted CalDAV client to parse into VEvent structures with structured types
- Updated all CRUD handlers to use VEvent with CalendarUser, Attendee, VAlarm types
- Restructured project as Cargo workspace with frontend/, backend/, calendar-models/
- Updated Trunk configuration for new directory structure
- Fixed all compilation errors and field references throughout codebase
- Updated documentation and build instructions for workspace structure

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Co-Authored-By: Claude <noreply@anthropic.com>

backend/Cargo.toml

@@ -8,6 +8,8 @@ name = "backend"
 path = "src/main.rs"
 
 [dependencies]
+calendar-models = { workspace = true }
+
 # Backend authentication dependencies
 jsonwebtoken = "9.0"
 tokio = { version = "1.0", features = ["full"] }